Mastering the Art of Dating: 10 Rules for Success

The art of dating is a difficult task.

Why do you think that around 30 to 40 percent of the US population is still single? Sure, one reason is that perhaps dating just isn’t a priority for them. However, it is believed that half of this number is actively seeking partners but is unable to find any.

It’s possible that not everyone is suited for it. Dating is a battleground. People go through it without knowing if they will succeed. Some people return victorious, while others in anguish.

It’s impossible to say if you’ll be successful because it all relies on who you’re with. However, by following these suggestions, you can improve your chances of dating success.

Rule #1: Get rid of your baggage (if any)

It’s not only a matter of having the proper things to say or making the correct gestures to ensure your dating life is a success. In fact, identifying potential partners isn’t the only consideration. To ensure that we have the best dating experience possible, we must first ensure that we are free of our emotional baggage.

Nothing sabotages our chances of finding ideal love more than ourselves.

Make sure you’re seeking someone in a healthy way, and that you’re not harboring old grudges or worries from prior experiences, since this will undoubtedly affect your search for that perfect love.

Rule #2: Don't be afraid to get out there

It might be unsettling to have strangers assess your suitability to become their partner. However, if you want to succeed, you have no choice but to put yourself out there.

The more you expose yourself and try your luck with others, the better your odds of meeting the right match become — you don’t need a dating expert to prove this. It’s simple math.

If you’re interested in online dating, try matching yourself with as many individuals as possible - but only if your criteria aren’t compromised. If you don’t have access to a dating app, ask your friends if they know of anyone who is also looking, or even attending a dating event.

The more possibilities you give yourself, the more likely you are to find love. So don’t be afraid to do new things or meet new individuals through different ways and any dating service.

Rule #3: Just be yourself

Take inspiration from what Blessid Union of Souls once said: She likes me for me. It’s crucial to be yourself when it comes to dating in this day and age. Not someone you created to fit someone else’s standards, but your own, authentic self.

Recognize your worth.

If your date dislikes the way you portray yourself, you should not conform to their opinion, especially if you are uncomfortable with it. If they don’t like it, just walk away; it’s not going to work out anyway.

Authenticity should be the foundation of every good, healthy relationship. Be yourself, not someone you created to fit in with their standards.

Rule #4: Be clear about what you want

When you were a teenager, you could have wished for someone attractive, well-dressed, and just pretty. People that age only go on dates that they can boast about to their buddies. But we’re no longer teenagers. Our preferences should have changed throughout time.

So, what exactly are you seeking for?

When we’re presented with a large number of possible partners, it’s all too easy to overlook what we really want and settle for the best alternative available. Nobody has time to read hundreds of profiles or meet a large number of individuals. — wrong.

People should set aside time for dating in order to be successful. If products are subjected to quality tests, why should these persons be exempted? Evaluate and understand what you actually want in a mate, then make sure you get her.

Rule #5: Don't hurry

Great things, like great relationships, require time.

Take your time choosing your dates and potential partners, and don’t let your standards slip. Remember, it takes time to form connections. You’d want to build your connection slowly but steadily, rather than rushing into it without knowing if it’s genuine.

Rule #6: Know what you can offer

Knowing what you have to give will enable you to approach the situation with confidence. You can easily be brave enough to come forward and take the risks necessary to win her heart if you know what you can give her.

Dating is a game of chance, and if you know how to play your cards well, you can easily win in this game.

Rule #7: State your intentions clearly

However, don’t be too direct.

If you want to meet someone to marry, don’t just state, "I’m just dating to marry.” While this is perfectly appropriate, it may come out as desperate and focused solely on getting married. Make sure you specify what you’re searching for and that it’s obvious.

Rule #8: Don't force anything

If what she’s searching for and what you’re looking for don’t match, don’t push something to come out of it. It’s crucial to have expectations and standards for your date, but if things aren’t going well, then it is the time to reconsider your relationship and move on.

Don’t become too attached to someone who doesn’t share your goals. Remember why you’re dating in the first place, and find someone who values the same things you do.

Rule #9: Rejection is not an option

When we give our all yet the outcomes don’t reflect our efforts, it can be discouraging. The question of “will I ever find love” becomes haunting. When it comes to dating, though, don’t take every “no” or suspected “ghost” as a rejection.

Treat them like what they are: not the proper person for you.

The more you think of them as rejections, the more dissatisfied, and the more hesitant you’ll be to move on to the next person for fear of the same thing happening again. After a negative encounter, give yourself a break, but never quit.

Rule #10: Trust yourself

Though these guidelines exist to help you get the most out of your dating life, it ultimately comes down to you.

Do what you think is best for you at any given time, even if it contradicts the list we’ve supplied. Trust your gut; it’s the best way to ensure you won’t have any regrets.

Concentrate on yourself, what you want to do, and how you plan to do it. Believe in yourself and realize that you are your own and greatest ally when it comes to building long term connections.